My last boyfriend had a long but super skinny one, which was weird. They all look pretty much the same and I think the difference is if a guy knows how to fuck. It felt like someone trying to fit their entire body inside me. Dick size is wayyyy down the list when it comes to whether a guy is good in bed: confidence, rhythm, making me comfortable, attraction—those are all much more important. A guy with a smaller penis is more attractive than a guy with a bigger penis who needs you to be all in awe of what he thinks is some cosmic accomplishment but really is just genes or biology or whatever. As a petite girl I can attest to the fact that big dicks are overrated. There are rare exceptions of men with honed skills that make it less likely to be painful, but usually you occupy yourself with taking so many precautions positions, depth, etc that in the end you just sort of lose the mood. Average is perfect in my book.
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Laziest fucking lay in the world. It was terrible. I kept asking him to ease up and not enter me all the way, and he kept getting over-enthusiastic…I still wonder what the best compromise would have been, since taking all of him was too much for me, but stopping short was not enough for him. Being completely filled and stretched like that is pretty amazing. I usually cramped up afterwards we always went super hard at it… again, the only girl that could take all of him in me with it still being good and rough. My first boyfriend was pretty well endowed. Oral was incredibly intimidating and I never really enjoyed it with him. He knew that, though, and was cool with it because he was getting laid. Then of the other two runner ups, one was my worst sexual experience ever. He was 7.
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I recently read a study that attempted to determine the average length of the erect penis by examining upwards of 15, men. These intrepid, probably very-interesting-at-a-dinner-party researchers determined that the average penis size is exactly 5. Where was I for this? Call me next time, science. Answer One: 5.